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People raise their eyebrows at relationships with a significant age gap: If you’re the older guy, you’re creepy and exploitative; if you’re the older woman, you’re both of those things plus delusional about your shelf life.And yet, it’s not an accident that the teacher is a sexual archetype: Power, and the transmission of knowledge, are inherently erotic.But there’s also an undeniable eroticism to youth (duh), hence why the schoolgirl/boy gets its own chapter in the book of pervy cliches.In an age-gap relationship, you’re trading in different currencies, but each holds its own value.If you have an established career but your partner is still living with his or her parents, you could be in for a rocky ride.
With close friends and family, this may mean making an effort to explain why you’re in love with the person and not with his or her age. Getting into constant arguments about your partner’s age is no way to live, so plan a simple—and ideally polite—response that shuts down further discussions of your partner’s age.
No matter how understanding you are, it’s likely that you’re going to bump up against some generational differences.
You might have different political views, find each other’s music obnoxious, or have no understanding of historical events that profoundly influenced your partner’s life.
And while sharing parallel life experiences with someone has its clear comforts, it’s not exactly jerk-off material.
I wonder: What do we gain and lose from dating someone of a different generation? For one, he wore silk onesie pajamas that he meticulously ironed to have a crease down the center of the pant leg.
A middle-aged man dating a much younger woman has long been thought of in American culture as a classic sign of midlife crisis.