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I am a 30 year old Indian man in love with a woman who is currently undergoing divorce.
She has a child just 1 years old from her current marriage.
Try dealing with these points: The Ex is a bad influence on the children, The ex cheated which meant the relationship ended with severe strain on the children and spouse who was betrayed, sharing children is NEVER a fun thing....think so?
Ask any divorced couple how many times the "No I thought YOU were going to take them this weekend and YOU were supposed to pick them up" argument occurs.
Yet, we are developing a very open minded friendship. I know patience would be worthwhile as she is the most amazing woman I have ever met. Reply You would be VERY wise to heed the comment about "her" priorities.
Women who make their kids their top priority are not good dating material. The children learn that the world revolves around them...seeing a healthy, positive relationship where a man and woman are the center and the children are to be loved but not the "center" of the world.
For example, when at home everyone gets along and does activities together, but in public the child may ignore the step parent and keep a distance.
The reason is because being in public is a less frequent occurrence when compared to being at home in private.
It's kind of like hanging out with your platonic female divorced friend and hearing her perspective on your divorce and your love life issues.Fun and Excitement The definition of fun and excitement itself will change, especially if the new step parent does not have kids.